Walk in wishing well. Rest at the center. Carry that warmth back out.
In DBT and RO-DBT, Loving Kindness is a mindfulness practice for replacing judgment, hostility and self-criticism with warmth and goodwill. You are not trying to force a feeling of love. You are practicing wishing well. The circle widens as you walk in.
Yourself
May I be happy. May I be safe. May I be healthy. May I live in peace.
Someone you love — a person who supports you or whom you care about deeply
May you be happy. May you be safe. May you be healthy. May you live in peace.
A neutral person — an acquaintance, someone you hardly know
May you be happy. May you be safe. May you be healthy. May you live in peace.
A difficult person — as much as you are able
May you be happy. May you be safe. May you be healthy. May you live in peace.
All beings
May all beings be happy. May all beings be safe. May all beings be healthy. May all beings live in peace.
This is the classical seven-circuit pattern, one of the oldest designs we know. It appears on a clay tablet from Pylos, Greece, from around 1200 BCE, and belongs to no single tradition.
A labyrinth is not a maze. There is one path, no dead ends and nothing to solve, so the mind can rest while the hand walks. Use it on your own between sessions, or together with Lori during a telehealth session. If you are near Spokane, you can also walk a full-size labyrinth with Lori.
Classical seven-circuit pattern hand-digitised by Lori C. Obbie, LMHC. Loving Kindness phrases from the traditional metta practice, as used in DBT and RO-DBT.
Nothing you trace is recorded or sent anywhere. The walk stays in your own browser.
This is a mindfulness practice, not a substitute for care. In a crisis, call or text 988.